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I’m Your Boss. Your Job Is To Make Me Look Good!

As a young assistant several years ago, I remember sitting across from my boss, getting a scolding and eventually hearing her say those words to me. I also remember thinking that she must be crazy if she thought that my… Continue Reading

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10 Reasons Why Marriage Is Not For Everybody

The marriage story has been over-flogged but the truth is it never gets spent. Growing up as a young girl, watching all those fairy tales and romantic comedies, and reading all those Mills and Boons that always ended happily ever… Continue Reading

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Why Moving In With Your Partner Before Marriage Might Make Sense!

Shoot the messenger. But in this case, she doesn’t care. I’ve heard so much talk about why it’s not right or not ideal to move in with someone and be sleeping with them, cooking and eating with them, playing ‘house’… Continue Reading

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One Year Later…

Flash back 11 months, 2 weeks, 3 days and 5 hours before. I pondered the year that was ending. What could I say I had achieved or done for myself? Or for anyone really? How had I made myself a… Continue Reading

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Boys Want What Other Boys Want!

Once upon a time, I hit a dry spell (a really dry spell) where there were no potential toasters, no appreciative looks, no winks, no requests for my phone number (even when I was pointedly staring at said object –… Continue Reading

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My Name is Ruth

No it isn’t. Not really. But Ruth is the kind of woman I am, the kind I want to be. You see, Ruth was strong. She was the kind of woman who could deal with anything. She dealt with loss.… Continue Reading

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Why Didn’t You Fight For Me?

My sweet sweet love, we’ve been together for three years. They haven’t been easy. We’ve had our good moments and our bad. Our very bad moments… But, we were happy. We used to be anyway. Remember when we’d just sit… Continue Reading

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Woman, Will Thy Kingdom Ever Come?

Now, this is not a feminist post. Neither is it a slur on men. It is more a quest to understand something that bothers me deeply. I drove my first car at the age of 17. It was a gift… Continue Reading

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This is not my real face…

This is not my real face. No, it’s not. My real face is not calm and expressionless under the worst pressures. My real face is not smiling when someone does something that hurts me. My real face is not laughing… Continue Reading

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I am ‘Flawfully’ and Beautifully Made!

“That thing about you, the thing that you hate the most, that you call a flaw, that’s what draws me to you, what I love most about you, what I wouldn’t trade for the world.” Oh, the joy that would… Continue Reading