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10 Reasons Why Marriage Is Not For Everybody

The marriage story has been over-flogged but the truth is it never gets spent. Growing up as a young girl, watching all those fairy tales and romantic comedies, and reading all those Mills and Boons that always ended happily ever… Continue Reading

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A Date With Karma

His phone rang for the umpteenth time in the last hour. He ignored it. Just like he had the last time. And the time before that. He knew who was calling and he was neither in the mood nor in… Continue Reading

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Why Moving In With Your Partner Before Marriage Might Make Sense!

Shoot the messenger. But in this case, she doesn’t care. I’ve heard so much talk about why it’s not right or not ideal to move in with someone and be sleeping with them, cooking and eating with them, playing ‘house’… Continue Reading

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One Year Later…

Flash back 11 months, 2 weeks, 3 days and 5 hours before. I pondered the year that was ending. What could I say I had achieved or done for myself? Or for anyone really? How had I made myself a… Continue Reading

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The Night I Lost My Virginity

It was a memorable night. But not for the right reasons. At least, not for the reasons you think. I was a final year student in a school of very high repute. And I had been dating my boyfriend for… Continue Reading

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Boys Want What Other Boys Want!

Once upon a time, I hit a dry spell (a really dry spell) where there were no potential toasters, no appreciative looks, no winks, no requests for my phone number (even when I was pointedly staring at said object –… Continue Reading

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My Name is Ruth

No it isn’t. Not really. But Ruth is the kind of woman I am, the kind I want to be. You see, Ruth was strong. She was the kind of woman who could deal with anything. She dealt with loss.… Continue Reading

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Why Didn’t You Fight For Me?

My sweet sweet love, we’ve been together for three years. They haven’t been easy. We’ve had our good moments and our bad. Our very bad moments… But, we were happy. We used to be anyway. Remember when we’d just sit… Continue Reading

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Diary Extract #13

Fear /fɪə/ noun an unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger, pain, or harm.   After my dreamy weekend with Danladi, (yes, I saw him on the Sunday as well, though just for drinks), nothing could spoil my week.… Continue Reading

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Woman, Will Thy Kingdom Ever Come?

Now, this is not a feminist post. Neither is it a slur on men. It is more a quest to understand something that bothers me deeply. I drove my first car at the age of 17. It was a gift… Continue Reading